Sometimes well meaning advice can come across as a rude comments to your singles friends. Here are some examples. You´re not trying hard enough. What! I´m not trying at all. I´m single by choice, not by fate. You´re too picky. Really! Have you ever seen me shoe shopping! Get back out there. Hell no! I´m enjoying my single life. I wish I hand more free time, like you. Seriously, dating is hard work! Just don´t turn into some crazy cat lady. Don´t worry, I´m a dog person…. #%&$##!!!